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Abiodun Adeniyi's avatar

I am Amanda, and most times I don't have an Hauwa to call or cry to. But what I do is to take a rest because I know I still have lots of food to taste, places to see, laughter to share and pictures to take.

Right now, I am resting. When i'm recharged, I'll go again.

Thank you!

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Ololade Sofowora's avatar

Big ups Abbey, you'd be fine

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Abiodun Adeniyi's avatar

Thank you Ololade!

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Laura's avatar

Honestly, I believe today's newsletter was for me. I had just bawled my eyes out a couple of days ago feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. This was a very timely piece and I appreciate you taking the time to write it as it came to you.

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Ololade Sofowora's avatar

You got this Laura!

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Laura's avatar

Thank you! Very much appreciated.

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Irene's avatar

Thank you so much for this Hauwa! It really spoke to me.

I’d just come out from a major state of depression this year. I guess I was just tired of things not going the way I wanted plus not really being excited about the new year. I had things I’d wanted to have achieved by 2023 but alas, the year came and I hadn’t ticked off most of my goals.

As someone with high anxiety, my mind was constantly in shambles due to worry. I became depressed and needed space from everyone. I took time to wallow in my shame, anxiety, and depressed state before finally acknowledging that I needed to do better for myself.

I realized that I had to take control of my life before it took control of me. I’m thankful that I went through that phase because it helped me realign my goals for this year.

Thank you so much for this Hauwa. Love you 😘

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Ololade Sofowora's avatar

Hey Irene,you are beautiful in and out.

Take it easy on yourself, itd set out just straight and smooth like you want it.

I am positive about this process,thank you so much Hauwa.

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Oluwatosin’s Newsletter's avatar

Today’s newsletter just triggered some emotions, life can be so so overwhelming. It’s so sad to go through all these and literally have no idea how you wanna get out. This means a lot hauwa, we all need a you trust me❤️

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Nabi🦋's avatar

Thanks for this. It's just what I needed. I have a post going out in a few minutes on how I'm trying my best to "rest, be vulnerable when I need to, reach out for suppot and cry when i have to" because just as you said, my life's just beginning to happen.

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Hawabby❤️'s avatar

I know rest is needed but how do you rest when you know if you stop, coming back is going to be harder. The world won't pause and the problems will still be there. How do you rest when you're not sure it's going to be better after?😪.

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Wamide A's avatar

Hey Hawabby, the world might not pause, the problems may still be there, but you’re also not the same. You’re coming back stronger and hopefully with more wisdom to deal with the beautiful uncertainties of life. And that’s what makes you you. You are Enough!

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Kate's avatar

This. I have same questions.

I am resting but I know it doesn't change anything. Maybe it gives me a little strength yh but most times it's only to exhaust it on the next big thing that comes right after and I just find myself crumbling the more.

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TKC ✨💜's avatar

I needed this just this moment!😔❤️

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Miya's avatar

I’m Amanda sometimes with an Hauwa to call and cry to and other times no Hauwa to call or cry to but regardless we move…..

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Weirdo's avatar

Thanks for sharing this post, I really needed to see this 🥺

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Osen's avatar

Omg Hauwa, this is so beautifully written

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Azeez Akande's avatar

Thanks for this Hauwa.

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Ayomikun Sonayon's avatar

This came in at the right time. I am at my lowest 😭.

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Gifty's avatar

Thank you Hawa, needed this. Love you. ♥️

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Victoria's avatar

Rest... it's underrated fr

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Ithickiknw's avatar

Thank you for this Hauwa😢😢🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Phebe's avatar

You are such an amazing person! We all deserve a friend like you in our circle. Thank you so much for this amazing word. Lots of Love ❤️

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