I had a similar experience earlier this year and it was so frustrating mainly because I was clocking a "milestone age" but I had to learn to breathe and take a break.
My birthday is today anyways and I am fine, everything good will come last last.
Hauwa, I'll still call you a witch ๐ cos How on earth will this newsletter come in at the right time?? Isn't that witchcraft ๐
Lately, I' find myself in this situation and at every moment, I check my intention. I ask myself different questions just to snap out of it. Then, focus on what I believe I need to do to level up my skills.
It's okay to be jealous! What's not OKAY is letting is get the best part of you.
I just subscribed to your newsletter today and as if you knew the kind of thing Iโm going through , I know Iโm very hardworking and smart but things just wasnโt going as I want and I see people that donโt even put in up to 60% of efforts I put in my work getting the results that I want . Of course I get jealous but I also congratulate them and continue yunno this saying that everyone has their own time . So hauwa Iโm patiently waiting for my own time ..
No lies about all Iโve read, people are always jealous of you if youโre better than them or probably doing better than them. Itโs happening to me right now
Ahhan Hauwa motivated me๐คญ... Be like magic, whatโs the secret๐๐
Thank you so much. I absolutely love this piece and I remember being jealous of someone because she has been getting jobs on the same site Iโve been trying to get a job on and I felt really incompetent but I channelled my thoughts to another angle. What if I deserve better than the jobs on that site? What if Iโm not destined to make money from writing on that site? What if I will not be able to handle the jobs on the site?
Things became so much better after that and Iโm glad.
Envying or been jealous of someone is quite normal, that is if you are not wishing them bad o ๐, i always thought a friend of mine had everything and I am always like baba God sey I be your stepchild ni, but the day this lady sat me down and download her issues to me my omo was omoed.
Hauwa this came at the right currently I feel I am jealous of my cousin because of lot of opportunities she has which I am wishing for..but it's well I will get over it
This came in at the right time! One of my friends relocated today and while congratulating her, I wished it was me and I was jealous of her so I had to quickly take it off my mind so I wonโt be labeled as a โwitchโ
So this part โRemind yourself that you donโt wish them any ill luck and channel that feeling into creating the life that you wantโ resonated well with me and Iโll keep pushing myself to do more. Thank you Hauwa.
I had a similar experience earlier this year and it was so frustrating mainly because I was clocking a "milestone age" but I had to learn to breathe and take a break.
My birthday is today anyways and I am fine, everything good will come last last.
Hauwa, I'll still call you a witch ๐ cos How on earth will this newsletter come in at the right time?? Isn't that witchcraft ๐
Lately, I' find myself in this situation and at every moment, I check my intention. I ask myself different questions just to snap out of it. Then, focus on what I believe I need to do to level up my skills.
It's okay to be jealous! What's not OKAY is letting is get the best part of you.
Thank you so much Hauwa ๐น
I just subscribed to your newsletter today and as if you knew the kind of thing Iโm going through , I know Iโm very hardworking and smart but things just wasnโt going as I want and I see people that donโt even put in up to 60% of efforts I put in my work getting the results that I want . Of course I get jealous but I also congratulate them and continue yunno this saying that everyone has their own time . So hauwa Iโm patiently waiting for my own time ..
Thank you so much for this!!! I always tell people it's normal to be jealous, it's how you react to it that matters.
Like you said so far you are not wishing evil on the person then you are not a bad person.
Wow, Hausa. It's like you just saw me and sent me this post directly.
Most of my friends are in UK while i got denied VISA.
I was actually jealous of them but i know deep down, i was really happy they were able to move abroad. .
Na to face channel that energy into doing something better with my life.
Thank you so much for the encouragement
Me Iโm interested in the call
I read something recently, the writer said jealousy comes because we undervalue what we have and overvalue what others have.
It stuck in my mind, welldone on the newsletter
Sha stop eating in the dream because one day theyโll say you should come and work for all the food youโve been eating๐
No lies about all Iโve read, people are always jealous of you if youโre better than them or probably doing better than them. Itโs happening to me right now
Great piece. Would like to be part of your community
This is so apt! The moment you recognize how you feel and understand it, you freee yourself! Iโm interested in the zoom call, thank you.
Interesting piece.
Would love to be a part of the hangout
Ahhan Hauwa motivated me๐คญ... Be like magic, whatโs the secret๐๐
Thank you so much. I absolutely love this piece and I remember being jealous of someone because she has been getting jobs on the same site Iโve been trying to get a job on and I felt really incompetent but I channelled my thoughts to another angle. What if I deserve better than the jobs on that site? What if Iโm not destined to make money from writing on that site? What if I will not be able to handle the jobs on the site?
Things became so much better after that and Iโm glad.
Yes, please, I will like to join the meeting.
Envying or been jealous of someone is quite normal, that is if you are not wishing them bad o ๐, i always thought a friend of mine had everything and I am always like baba God sey I be your stepchild ni, but the day this lady sat me down and download her issues to me my omo was omoed.
Happy Birthday Hauwa.
Yes, donโt dwell on that feeling, and use it to push yourself to go harder in achieving your dreams. Thank you for writing about this.
I would love to be a part of the virtual discussion.
Hauwa this came at the right currently I feel I am jealous of my cousin because of lot of opportunities she has which I am wishing for..but it's well I will get over it
Thank you for this Hauwa โค๏ธ๐๐ฅณ
This came in at the right time! One of my friends relocated today and while congratulating her, I wished it was me and I was jealous of her so I had to quickly take it off my mind so I wonโt be labeled as a โwitchโ
So this part โRemind yourself that you donโt wish them any ill luck and channel that feeling into creating the life that you wantโ resonated well with me and Iโll keep pushing myself to do more. Thank you Hauwa.